I know how much a broken heart hurts. And I can tell you that getting over a breakup is no easy thing. These experiences are devastating, and they can leave you feeling lost, wounded and confused.
You might not even know who you are after a breakup. Often, the experience can blur the line between your reality and your fears.
So, it sucks that you went through this. You wanted love, and you fell hard for him. You laid bare your soul and gave him your heart. You let him in, and you hoped that your love would be reciprocated.
But it did not take long for you to realize your love for him was stronger than his love for you. But blinded by love, you ate up every sweet word he told you and believed that he loved you. To you, all you needed was to show him how much you truly loved him and he would give you his heart.
You wished he would start treating you better.
That never came to be. He was not even the person you believed him to be. He was undeserving of the love you had given him. He did not lack time for you because he was busy, but because you were never a priority for him.
He should have cared about your feelings but he didn’t. When he looked into his future, he never saw you in it.
All the signs were there, and you saw them vividly. But your choice was to ignore them all. That is how you got yourself into this.
You went all in, blinded by love. And now, you are paying the ultimate price.
I know that is probably the last thing you want to hear, having said it to yourself a million times. But I have something to tell you.
You might feel completely lost at the moment, and even though things might seem hopeless, I assure you that there is hope for you.
It’s true that you loved, and have now lost, and that is one of the worst things that could happen to anyone.
However, the fact that you are still here counts for something. For one thing, it means that you still have something inside of you that is keeping you going.
In other words, you have not lost everything, even though it might seem that way.
There is some hope that still burns on the inside, and it is what is keeping you going. And believe me, even though you have been broken, you will feel love once more.
In fact, you will experience a love that is so much better than what you got from the undeserving waste of time that has just left your life.
Remember that after the rain, comes the rainbow.
Now you are done with the biggest mistake of your life. Now, the love of your life can find a way into your life.
So, it’s not time to give up, but a time to look into the bright future that awaits you. True love is calling out to you, and all you have to do is take a leap of faith and be bold enough to let go of your fears and your past.
Once you behold the true love of your life, you will realize why it was such a blessing that things never worked out with the person who left you heartbroken.
You will heal, and you will move on and be happy. Trust me, you will not recall ever feeling so good about anything once the love of your life is officially in your life and your arms.