Published in Aug 2020 / Updated in Mar 2021
Stop worrying about a man’s true feelings for you. If you notice these 7 signs that a man takes you seriously, then he’s probably the one.
These signs will show you whether or not he genuinely loves you and wants to be with you and seeks to have a serious relationship with you.
His Future Is “Our” Future
He is willing to discuss the future with you, he makes you feel like you’re a part of his life and his future, and he wants to prove to you that he isn’t just playing around and you’re not a phase in his life.
He Spends A Lot of Time Asking You Questions
If he sits all day and asks you question after question about you and he really listens to your answers, girl, put it down that he definitely likes you.
Unlike women, guys don’t do that just for fun. It takes effort for them to be curious. Men only ask questions when they like someone and they want to build a serious connection.
It’s a plus if he remembers all the little details of your answers. Why? Because he’s taking in what you have to say, and he’s using that knowledge to go much deeper into your true self.
He Does Whatever Makes You Happy
“Actions speak louder than words”
You’ve heard this before, haven’t you? People would have saved a heck of a lot of heartaches if they followed this great line.
If he is helping you whenever you need it, keeping his promises, and showing up at the time he needs to show up, then you can guarantee that he’s serious about you. After all, if he wants to be in a relationship with you, he’ll show his intentions with action.
In fact, you can just tell this is the case if your man always wants to be your hero and save the day.
You’re His Priority In Life
This is related to the previous point. If it’s obvious that you always come first in his life, then you can be sure that he wants to have a serious relationship with you.
Men usually don’t make women a priority in their life unless she’s the one, so if he prioritizes you above everything, then it shows that you’re important to him. He wants to have a life-long relationship with you.
He Can Share His Feelings With You
As we all know, men aren’t the most talkative creatures. They don’t speak much about their feelings as it takes a lot of effort on their part.
Therefore, if he shares how he feels with you and gets all emotional, you can bet your bottom dollar he takes you seriously. Generally, you can tell how willing he is to share his feelings when he’s not afraid to answer all your questions.
Because he loves you, he won’t hold anything back.
He’s Honest With You
He’s never dishonest with you. Even if it gets him into trouble, he makes it a point to never lie or deceive you.
He knows that it’s always best for your relationship to be real with you. He only wants to be worthy of the love and trust that you give him.
So, he’d never betray your trust in any way.
He’s Open To Sharing Intimate Details Of His Life With You
You notice that he opens up to you in a way he wouldn’t really do normally with other people. That’s because he’s comfortable and he trusts you.
If he does that, he definitely takes the relationship seriously.
Now that you know these 7 signs that a man takes you seriously, it should be much easier to tell whether your partner cares about you and wants you for the long term. So, is your man a keeper?