What was once unspeakable, or crass, is now part of everyday conversations. A horny woman is no longer a straight male's toy to use and abuse. She's here because that's natural!

Once you reach a certain age, which when you're a woman in her late 20s or early 30s, you're no longer supposed to be a horny woman. No, you're allowed to have sex, we all saw Sex and The City, but being horny for no reason, aka being Samantha is still a big deal.

Of course, you're allowed to feel aroused when you're with your partner or to have a session with your safely tucked away sex toy from time to time. It's sort of acceptable to say that you watch porn from time to time, but for some reason, at least no meaningful one, you're not supposed to simply feel horny.

If you think this isn't the case, or that all this talk is over dramatic, let's remember that the moment you hit 30, you are no longer a person.

You're a baby-making machine, and the only question you can't avoid is when is the baby is coming. So, yes, you can be a horny woman, yet you have to have a partner and a birthing plan. You're not in college, so stop acting like you're a sexual being.

Instead of fighting your needs, let's embrace them. No, we won't solve first world problems, but there's a big chance that more ladies will feel better with themselves, considering they don't need to hide the fact that they are just as horny as males. If not more.

Horny Woman, You're Not Alone

You don't have a partner, nor do you have any idea if you'll end up being that crazy old cat lady. That's okay; no one has any idea what will happen in the next five minutes, let alone in the next few years.

Instead of living in shame, ask yourself: what is it that you're ashamed of? That you're a horny woman who needs to get laid and doesn't want a relationship? It's your body, your choice, and you're far from being alone.

Let's go back to what it is that men do all the time. They can be bachelors for life, and no one questions their purpose or their ovaries (well, their swimmers, but you get the point!).

Men change partners, cheat without being emotionally involved, and we simply say boys will be boys.

Well, gals will be gals. There's no right amount of partners, as long as you're happy. No, you're not building a reputation, because you're not your sexual partners.

Your reputation is how you treat people, how much you invest in yourself, and how much you work to create your happiness.

A Horny Woman Could Be Your Mother Or Sister

Before men start attacking us for promoting promiscuous behavior, let's talk about all the sexually frustrated ladies in their lives.

So, if by accident, you're a straight male reading this, and you have specific issues, think of all the women in your life. Do you want your sister, one day, or your daughter, to feel joy?

Or do you want them to still be stuck around the same old subject? You certainly don't want anyone to label them as sluts, so it's time to choose.

You can either be a part of the problem or part of the solution. Stop judging what you don't know.

A single mom with three kids with three fathers? So what? It's better to be alone than a mom in a bad relationship. Your child free boss? She wanted more and went for it.

You don't have to understand to support what's right. And if a woman states something as a fact, and it has nothing to do with you, trust her.

The world would be a much better place if we all dared to hear each other!

Women Are Just As Responsible

Ladies, united we stand. Before you start trash talking about some horny woman, who dared to pick up a person in a bar, imagine what other women can say about you.

None of us are perfect. And as long as it's consensual, and you're all adults, who care who sleeps with whom?

Don't be that person, someone who goes against one of their own, to make yourself feel better, for maybe two minutes.

Men tend to judge us, but do you realize that the harshest critics come from other women? You are friends with someone because of their soul, not because you're in charge of their nipples.

Many women say that they are tired of feminism. Sorry ladies, but remember this: we were not allowed to vote, just 100 years ago. Basically, we were farm animals in fancy gowns. Being a feminist isn't a fight against men, but a fight for equality.

And being a horny woman, and being proud of it, is a tiny portion of embracing that we're all equals.

No one is telling you how to feel, but in the same manner, you should treat others with respect, and if nothing else, understand that we aren't all the same.

You Don't Have To Be In Sync With Your Man

If you're in a straight relationship, you might not have enough sex, thanks to science. Women are at their prime at night, while men are ready for action mostly during mornings.

Instead of playing with yourself, while he's snoring in your ear, compromise. Tell him that you're a horny woman, and you need your medicine, and in return, you'll get up ten minutes earlier in two days.

Now, you think that this isn't science, and it's all in your head. Well, not true.

Men's levels of testosterone are higher in the morning, while ladies have other things to consider. women's sex hormones will increase slightly throughout the day, but you know that the peak depends on the cycle.

Sexuality Is Not Shameful

Men are annoyingly growing up and growing old with their infamous dick jokes. We can't join them, nor do we want to. But, if you say something, you'll be labeled as oversensitive. What a load of …

The idea isn't to start talking vagina jokes, though it might be liberating for some ladies. However, if you're a horny woman, you can say it out loud and feel nothing else, no shame or pride.

Your sexuality belongs to you only, and if you want to declare it to the world, that's your business.

Despite what our great grandmothers had to live with, our organs are not made only to make babies or satisfy men.

Orgasms have so many benefits for your overall health, including youthful appearance, so when you're in the mood, go for it.

You have your needs, and it's not like the rest of the world doesn't know it. But, talking about it somehow makes everyone uncomfortable to say that women are horny, and they continue to be, some, for the rest of their lives.

Generally, most women don't peak until they are in the early 40s, while men peak in their 20s, so yes, overall, we are the hornier sex.

Every Horny Woman Deserves A Good Orgasm

Some things are genuinely only up to you. It's not just your body; it's your mind as well. So, if you're feeling frisky, you have to be aware that you deserve high-quality sex, regardless of what the rest of the world thinks. And indeed, regardless of your size, skin color, age, or how many kids you have or don't have.

Too many women have lost themselves in their appearance, that they don't think they deserve good things.

Start to treat yourself with more beautiful things. It doesn't mean that you have to buy a new Fendi handbag, but you can dedicate an hour to yourself, to reset, meditate, work out, and prepare your favorite food.

By doing things for yourself and taking care of your body and mind, you'll notice that your attitude towards your sexuality changes.

And yes, it's perfectly reasonable that you only feel physical attraction. You don't have to be emotionally attached to each person you sleep with. That's another myth, and guess who doesn't benefit from it? You!

You Can Tell Your Partner What You Want

Finally, since this is all about the big O, it's unfortunate that a lot of women never experience orgasm.

What works for your BFF doesn't have to work for you. So, you have to be comfortable with yourself, explore and get to know your body, and only then can you ask a person you're having sex with what you need, what you desire.

Not every orgasm is the same, and sometimes you will think you're a horny woman, yet you won't be able to do the whole sex thing.

Perhaps you're tired, or there's something else on your mind. Similarly, some things will work on certain occasions, but won't do a thing on others.

And you don't have to scream all the time, or at all. Neither do you have to wear sexy underwear each time you want to get some. You can have a desire to have a quickie, or to try out something new. Like adding a third person, more toys, or experimenting with the sex, you're not primarily attracted to.

All that crap you heard about experimenting at college? Well, that's just it. A whole bunch of crap, since most people actually want to learn, especially if they don't come from money.

It's only fair to say that we still have a long road ahead of us. And no, we will never be men, but that's what makes everything more interesting.

However, denying a horny woman her right to have a healthy, consensual orgasm is rather dumb.

As long as you're not hurting anyone, you do you. We only have one life, and things can change overnight.

So, enjoy, make the most of it, and don't settle for what society wants from you. They won't have to live with those decisions for the next 30 or 50 years. But you will.

You are unique, and so is everyone else. Your voice matters, so speak up, since sexuality is one of the fields where women still have a lot to say in terms of progress.