The journey of life is filled with personal epiphanies that lead you closer to your ideal soulmate. Yes, soulmates actually exist, but you have to position yourself properly so they can find you in a crowd of other people pretending to be their ideal mates.
Finding "the one" is about having someone who has the qualities you desire in a mate based on your desires and personality. In other words, you need someone you can feel a connection to.
To find your best partner, and someone who truly appreciates you and everything you can offer, you need these things.
1. Altruism
Be a selfless person who gives to others without ulterior motives. Be a loving giver.
Greedy people rarely attract people who will make their lives better. What's worse is that they push away people who can truly improve their lives.
Learn to give to the world, and it will give you everything you need and more in return, including a person who appreciates and loves you.
You have to give to receive. Accept that and practice it.
2. Humility
It's nice being self-confident and assured, or even assertive when need be. But that cannot be your mood round the clock.
Learn to laugh at yourself and don't take life too seriously. Few people have this trait since we try so hard to be accomplished and proud of how far we have come in life.
3. Unbelievable Honesty
Be honest and accept yourself, however flawed you are. Don't hide who you are because you deserve someone who accepts you just as you are.
You will also expect honesty from the person you love. So, make sure you can offer the same to them.
4. Open-Mindedness
It's great that you have your own opinions and have good defensible reasons for them. However, you need to accept that there are multiple ways to see the same issue.
With an open mind, you will see more possibilities than you ever imagined. Someone who truly loves you will want someone who is not stuck in their ways.
5. Being Yourself
Some people pretend just to attract their partners. You cannot pretend forever, and you have to make it a personal mission to be yourself under all circumstances.
You are amazing, and pretending makes it impossible for the right person to see that. Many people think pretenses make them more likable, but they achieve just the opposite.
So, be your best self by being yourself. You will get someone proud and appreciative of what you can offer.
6. Sense Of Humor
You cannot take everything in life so seriously. Don't walk around full of self-importance and with no time for jokes and humor.
That's tedious and off-putting. You were also created with a body that loves to smile, giggle, chuckle, and have fun, and these special expressions of joy should be available to your special someone.
Learn to enjoy life.
We all deserve love and appreciation in this life, and we can get it if we do these simple things. So, make sure your attitude and behavior are not keeping your soulmate at bay.
