Let's say you're experiencing an incredibly dreadful day. Perhaps you didn't pass an exam, your manager is challenging to deal with, you misplaced your phone, or your canine companion created a mess in your dwelling.
Regardless of the cause, you're feeling overwhelmed. A headache is brewing behind your eyes, and you find yourself questioning whether things could get any worse.
However, at that moment, the person you've been interested in sends you a message. While he could have said any number of things, what truly counts is that he said just the perfect thing to bring a smile to your face. For a brief moment, your entire day feels slightly improved.
Messaging the person you're fond of is a simple method to uplift their mood - just like how it uplifts your mood when they message you. However, the challenging part is figuring out the perfect words to convey your message. That's why we have compiled over 50 things to text him to brighten up his day.
Allow us to demonstrate what we have devised.
TEXTING RESPONSIBLY (SO YOU DON'T DRIVE HIM AWAY)
We have produced numerous texting guides, and in each one, we believe it's always beneficial to include some fundamental texting guidelines to avoid spoiling his day instead of brightening it.
The primary rule to keep in mind is to avoid bombarding him with texts. If he doesn't respond immediately, keep in mind that he's probably preoccupied with work, school, friends, or family. He will respond when he has the opportunity, particularly if he genuinely likes you. (If he never replies, check out our guide on what to text when a guy doesn't respond.)
Another aspect to consider when you aim to brighten his day is your tone. Aim to maintain a positive and upbeat tone in your text. If he has had a difficult day, any negativity from you could exacerbate his mood.
Lastly, ensure that you are not too readily accessible. If you consistently respond to him immediately when he texts you, he may begin to assume that you are always available.
At times, take a little while to respond to him, even if you have nothing else to do. This illustrates to him that you have a life beyond him and piques his interest in what you are up to.
THINGS TO TEXT HIM TO MAKE HIS DAY
We have categorized the texts we wrote into four distinct groups:
To assist you in selecting the most appropriate category for your circumstance, we will describe when to use each category. And if you are unable to find a text that seems suitable for him, take a look at the Text Chemistry course. We appreciate the abundance of practical and clever recommendations it provides for revolutionizing your texting approach.
Fun Things to Text Him to Make His Day
Do you desire something that will make him chuckle or give him an instant boost? A witty text message like one of the following would be ideal.
Every text has a lighthearted tone, and many of them suggest something you can do to make his day as great as possible. After all, guys enjoy treats just as much as anyone else!
"What do you feel like having tonight? I'll cook anything you want for dinner."
"Guess what? I have a surprise for you!"
"Forget it. Let's have a lazy night in bed and order pizza."
"You know what I think you need? A massage from me."
"Do you want to go on a spontaneous adventure this weekend?"
"If you could dine at any restaurant tonight, which one would it be? Maybe someone will surprise you..."
"Do you want to play a texting game?"
"If you could make one wish, what would it be?"
"Do you want to go watch a movie this weekend? I'll cover the tickets."
"Send him a picture or a meme that you know he will adore."
"Looks like I may have accidentally ordered an extra coffee...Oops! Let me stop by and drop it off for you."
"I know just how to cheer you up: tacos."
"I think you should come over tonight. My dog/cat is starting to miss you. accompanied by a picture of your pet"
"Send him a corny joke! If you can't think of any, there are plenty available online."
"Do you want to skip work/school together tomorrow?"
"Let's stay up late and watch scary movies tonight. I promise I'll keep you safe. ?"
Sexy Things to Text Him to Make His Day
One of the quickest and simplest ways to lift a man's mood is to entice him with something sexy. Sending him any of the following texts will get his heart racing and make him yearn to see you again.
Caution: Be prepared to receive multiple texts from him asking to see you right away.
"Did you know that you're the best kisser I've ever kissed?"
"How about I show you my new lingerie tonight?"
"Bought some cherry-flavored Chapstick today. Care to taste it on me later?"
"My thought keep drawing towards what you did last night…"
"There's no need to rewrite this one as it is already clear and concise."
"What would you like to see? I'll send you a picture of it."
"I can't help but notice there's a vacant side of my bed that's in need of some company..."
"I'm imagining this straw I'm sucking on is you right now…"
Sweet Things to Text Him to Make His Day
Although they may not always openly acknowledge it, men also appreciate some romance from time to time. Expressing something sentimental or endearing to him could be just what he needs to feel uplifted.
Messages like these are particularly effective when you have recently entered an official relationship or when you have both expressed romantic interest in each other.
"Although I'm at work presently, I would rather be in bed with you."
"Just wanted to send a quick message and remind you that you are amazing."
"Whenever I'm with you, I feel like the luckiest person in the world."
"I wonder if you smile as much as I do when I receive a text from you?"
"You bring so much joy to my life that my cheeks ache from smiling."
"Remember that I'm always here for you."
"Everyone is envious of the fact that I'm with you."
"I feel grateful to have you in my life."
"I wanted to remind you that I am proud of you and the hard work you put in."
"I am grateful for all that you do for me. Thank you."
"Just wanted to remind you today that I love you."
"Every time I think of you, I get a fluttery feeling in my stomach."
"For me, being held in your arms is heaven."
"The color of your eyes is my favorite color."
"Your smile is the most handsome one I have ever seen."
"No one can make me laugh as hard as you do."
"You are perfect to me."
Do you need some help encouraging him to commit to a relationship? Here are 15 texts that could do the trick.
Flirty Things to Text Him to Make His Day
Flirting is the art of combining lighthearted and endearing gestures without crossing the line into overtly sexual territory. It encompasses any actions or words that are intended to occupy a person's thoughts throughout the day with the goal of capturing their interest and attention.
"You can choose to send him a selfie in which you look great, and it's entirely up to you whether you want to go for a sexy or cute vibe."
"If I were able to wake up next to you, my day would be infinitely better."
"I'm quite certain that if I were asked to describe my ideal man, I would simply describe you."
"I'm starting to think about you so much that I might need to charge you rent for taking up so much space in my thoughts!"
"Do you happen to know any charming gentlemen who could keep me company? Because being around a handsome man is the only thing that can lift my spirits right now!"
"I just wanted to let you know that you're looking quite handsome today, in case no one else has told you yet!"
"Just so you know, I'm currently wearing one of your t-shirts. I must admit, it doesn't look nearly as good on me as it does on you!"
"If we were together at this moment, what would be your desired activity?"
"One of my favorite things is snuggling with you."
"I'm missing your handsome face. Can you send me a picture, please?"
"If I were ever asked about the identity of the world's sexiest man, I would simply display a picture of you."