Red flags of commitment-phobia include statements such as opposition to marriage or preference for casual relationships. However, there may also be subtler indications that a partner is unlikely to commit. If your partner exhibits any of these 18 behaviors, it is unlikely that they will commit in the future.

1. He Doesn't Say "we"

The word "I" can reveal a lot. If your partner frequently uses it in their conversations, it may indicate that they are not considering your wants and needs. This can make you feel like an afterthought in their plans and decisions.

2. He Has Excuses For Not Meeting Your Friends

Excuses can be a sign of disinterest. If your partner frequently cancels plans with you, citing reasons such as work or helping friends, it may indicate that they do not prioritize spending time with you. If this is a recurring pattern, it may be a sign that they are not as invested in the relationship as you are.

3. He's Always Up For His Idea Of Fun

Leadership in planning activities can be a sign of commitment. If your partner consistently chooses what to do during your free time and doesn't take your interests into account, it may indicate that they are not fully committed to the relationship. A committed partner would make an effort to include and consider your interests and preferences.

4. He Tells You He Finds It Hard To Trust Someone

Trust issues can be common, but if your partner frequently brings them up in conversations, it may be a warning sign that they are not ready or able to commit. This could be because they are not yet able to overcome their trust issues and move forward in the relationship.

5. He Love-bombs You

Receiving a lot of love and attention from your partner can be wonderful, but it can also be a red flag. If your partner is putting in excessive effort, it could be a sign that they are overcompensating for their fear of commitment. This behavior may indicate that they are not ready to fully commit to the relationship.

6. He Can't Commit In Other Areas Of His Life

If your partner avoids committing to anything that would tie them down, such as a long-term job or future plans, it could be a sign that they are not ready to commit to a relationship. This lack of commitment in other areas of their life could carry over into your relationship, indicating that they may not be willing to fully commit to you.

7. He Keeps His Phone Face-down In Your Presence

If your partner is overly protective of their phone, it could be a sign that they are not being transparent with you. This could include carrying it with them at all times or keeping the screen hidden from you. A committed partner would be open and transparent with you, and would not have reason to hide their phone usage.

8. He Never Meets For Breakfast

If your partner is always too busy for breakfast plans but is always available for evening plans, it could be a sign that they do not view the relationship as serious. Breakfast is often considered a more intimate meal, and if your partner is not willing to make time for it, it may indicate that they are not fully committed to the relationship. This can leave you feeling bitter and disappointed.

9. You're In A Relationship Lull

If your relationship is stable but not progressing, it could be a sign that your partner is not ready to take the next step. If there is no discussion of the future or plans to move in together, it may indicate that they are not fully committed to the relationship. This lack of progression can make you feel uncertain about the future of your relationship.

10. His Closest Friends Are All Single

If your partner is close to friends who share similar views on commitment and relationships, it may be an indication that they are not ready to settle down. If his friends are also committed to the single life, it could be a sign that your partner shares the same sentiment and is not ready for a serious commitment with you.

11. He Stopped "chasing" You

If your partner was attentive and affectionate when trying to win your affections, but now seems to have taken you for granted, it could be a sign that they are not fully committed to the relationship. This could mean that they no longer see the need to put in effort to keep the relationship going. This lack of effort can be hurtful and damaging to the relationship.

12. You Feel Weird Bringing Up Anything Serious

If you feel hesitant to bring up certain topics with your partner, such as future plans or commitment, it could be a sign that you anticipate a negative reaction. This could include a lack of seriousness or a tendency to change the subject. This can be a sign that they are not ready to take the relationship to the next level.

13. He Won't Do "boring" Things With You

Committed relationships involve doing mundane everyday tasks together, such as running errands or handling administrative tasks. If your partner seems to avoid doing these tasks with you, it may indicate that they are not ready to fully integrate you into all aspects of their life. This lack of willingness to involve you in these routine activities can be a sign of lack of commitment in the relationship.

14. He Doesn't Have His Act Together

Even if your partner is a great person, if they are not able to handle their own life and have no clear goals or plans for the future, it may be a sign that they are not ready for a serious commitment. This lack of direction or stability in their own life can make it difficult for them to commit to a relationship and take it to the next level.

15. Sundays Are His And His Alone

It's normal for people in a relationship to have their own hobbies or interests and separate time, but if your partner has a strict rule about not seeing you on a specific day of the week, it could be a sign that they are not ready to fully commit to the relationship. This inflexibility in their schedule and making time for you may be indication that they are not willing to make the necessary adjustments to make the relationship work.

16. He Doesn't Do Dates

If you and your partner spend a lot of time together, but the majority of your time is spent at his place and often in the bedroom, it could be a sign that he is not interested in taking the relationship to the next level. Going on proper dates is an important part of a committed relationship, and if he is not willing to make the effort to plan them, it can indicate that he is not invested in the relationship as much as you are.

17. It Feels Like You're Buddies

If you and your partner spend a lot of time together but it feels more like a friendship than a romantic relationship, it could be a sign that the level of intimacy and physical connection is not enough. If there is a lack of physical intimacy and sexual activity, it could be a sign that your partner is not as invested in the relationship as you are, or that they are not ready for a deeper level of commitment.

18. He Doesn't Turn To You

Committed partners support and trust each other. If your partner does not confide in you with problems or share their personal thoughts, it could be a sign that they are not fully invested in the relationship. Not being willing to open up and be vulnerable is a sign that they are holding back emotionally and it could prevent them from committing to the relationship fully.