15 Texts To Make Him Worry About Losing You

Love can inspire intense and unpredictable behavior, particularly in the early stages of a relationship. This may include interpreting messages excessively, feeling anxious about seeing your partner, obsessing over every action, and taking extreme measures to maintain the relationship.

When a partner seems distant or unresponsive to your efforts, it can be natural to want to make them fear losing you. The idea being that if they come to understand how valuable you are to them, they will be motivated to keep the relationship.

One way to potentially achieve this goal is by using text messages strategically. If you are uncertain of what to say, there are several examples of texts that could potentially make your partner worry about losing you.


Attempting to make a partner appreciate you by making them worry about losing your interest can be a delicate and potentially risky strategy. It is important to find a balance, as being too obvious or manipulative in your actions can push them away, rather than keeping them close.

Given this, it is important to be mindful of the approach you take when using text messages to make your partner worry about losing you. There are certain tactics that can help prevent them from ending the relationship. It's worth considering these tactics when formulating your text messaging strategy.

One tactic is to avoid responding immediately when he sends a message. If you reply as soon as you receive his message, it can convey to him that you are always readily available and at his disposal.

It is important to remember that the goal is to make your partner stop taking you for granted and realize your worth. To achieve this, it is important to maintain a sense of independence and show that you have a life outside of the relationship.

Another tactic is to always maintain a dignified and respectful demeanor. While it may be tempting to try to make your partner jealous by pretending to be interested in someone else or flirting with other people in front of them, it is a low and disrespectful behavior that is not worth engaging in.

It is important to remember that you are the one who has to live with yourself and your actions. By taking the high road and being mature, confident, and respectful, you will be more likely to feel good about yourself and your conduct. Your ultimate goal should be to be comfortable with yourself and make sure that you're making yourself into someone you enjoy being around.

Third, maintain your composure. Avoid pleading with him to communicate or commit to the relationship.

If you allow yourself to be constantly taken advantage of, he will view you as someone he can easily manipulate. It is essential to have open and honest conversations about your emotions, but it's important to do so in a composed and dignified manner. Avoid being a doormat and being taken for granted by standing up for yourself.

Finally, consider researching what men want and need. We recommend the Devotion System as a great resource, as it was created by a reputable relationship expert.


Now, let's move on to the text templates you have been waiting for. Each of them employs a unique approach, such as displaying that you have an active life outside of your relationship with him, or making him feel a bit envious.

It's important to note that each text message may require some adjustments to fit the specific situation with him. Following each message, we'll provide information on when it's appropriate to use it and if it's a recommended strategy.

"Sorry for not getting back to you earlier. I was occupied."

Great for: Showcasing that you have a life outside of your relationship with him and that you're independent.

"I won't be able to meet up this weekend, I already have plans."

Great for: Communicating that you are able to enjoy yourself independently when he has asked to hang out and you already have plans.

"I'm going to have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. Something came up unexpectedly."

Great for: Conveying that you are a sought-after person and making him wonder what could have caused you to cancel the plans. If it's him who's canceling plans, you can refer to our guide on what to text a guy who constantly cancels on you.

"You know, I thought of something new and exciting we could try in bed next time we're together..."

Great for: Creating anticipation and excitement for your next encounter. This text can be paired with others, such as letting him know you're unavailable for a period of time, to heighten his desire to see you again.

"I just got a new sexy outfit, I'm planning to wear it when I'm out with some friends later."

Great for: Making him imagine you in a sexy outfit and how other men might perceive you. It's important to note that this text has a more manipulative tone.

Send him a playful selfie of you with friends, especially if you're wearing something attractive.

Great for: Quickly showcasing that you're capable of enjoying yourself with or without him. It can also be used to make him jealous. You can also refer to our guide on how to text your ex-boyfriend to make him jealous.

"Ugh, there's this guy at work who won't stop hitting on me."

Great for: Casually informing him that other men are attracted to you. Keep in mind that this text can be manipulative, so it should be used sparingly.

"Hey, we need to have a talk. I feel like you've been taking me for granted recently."

Great for: When you want to have an honest and direct conversation about how you feel. This approach is best when you know that he's open to discussing the issues.

"I'm not up for hanging out tonight. I need some alone time."

Great For: When you need to cancel plans at the last minute or decline his invitations to hang out. It will make him curious and wonder what you're thinking or doing.

"I have a surprise for you and I'll give it to you on our next date!"

"Effective for building anticipation and excitement for your next meeting. A gift is always appreciated and will increase his eagerness to see you again."

"I understand if you need some space, but I won't wait around for you while you take it."

"Effective when conveying the message of self-sufficiency and independence. The assertive ending may come across as strong, but it serves as a reminder of your self-worth and that you are capable of thriving without him."

"Consider sending a provocative photo of yourself."

"Effective for reminding him of what he would be missing if he were not with you, and potentially creating a sense of longing to make plans to see you again."

"I have tickets for the movie you wanted to watch, would you like to join me this weekend?"

"Effective when seeking to inspire him to plan another date with you. It can also be an excellent way to lift his spirits if he's been feeling down recently."

"Is everything alright? I noticed you've been distant recently."

"Effective when looking to start a more meaningful conversation. It is important to be mindful of using this type of statement too frequently as it may make him feel like he's being interrogated."

"I'm unable to talk at the moment, I'm occupied."

"Effective for creating curiosity about your current activities."

"Creating a desire for him to do everything in his power to hold on to you requires time and effort. Building a relationship that he can't imagine life without requires a collaborative effort."

"It is essential to have an understanding of how a man's mind functions. A valuable resource in this regard is "Devotion System" by Relationship Coach Amy North. The program is designed to provide you with all the knowledge you need to create a strong emotional attachment with him."