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13 Signs There Is Someone Else In Your Partner's Life

13 Signs There Is Someone Else In Your Partner's Life
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Are you afraid that there is someone else in your partner's life? This is certainly a tough position to find yourself in. Fortunately, today you can stop the torture of not knowing if you are being played or not by learning the tricks below.

In general, there are many reasons you should be concerned about your partner's commitment to you. For instance, if you have just started dating, this can help you know if to keep seeing them or move on.

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If you are in a serious relationship, having this information will allow you to confront them and find out what your partner's true feelings toward you are. So, here are signs there is someone else in their life.

1. You Notice New And Strange Habits

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Once your partner finds someone else, you will notice a change in their behavior. You will generally have many questions you cannot answer about them.

For instance, their movements might become erratic. Also, they might not be as happy to tell you about what they did during the day because some of that was spent with another potential partner.

In general, a partner who is cheating will try to cover up a lot of things, even things they should not in an effort to stay above suspicion.

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There will also be excuses for staying up later than usual or leaving earlier than expected. So, if you start noticing a lot of new "quirks" you cannot explain, then you have every reason to believe there is someone else in your partner's life.

2. Your Partner Does Not Text Or Call As Often

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A decade ago, someone could get away with not texting their partner. But now, technology is a lot more advanced, and when a partner does not text or call, that's a good reason to believe that there is someone else in the picture.

Even if you take into consideration the fact that your partner might be a "bad texter," it should not take several hours or days before you get a response from them. After all, it does not take long to conclude that you have been ghosted.

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So, if their texting and calling leave something to be desired, then there is someone else in their lives. This is especially true if your partner stayed in touch more regularly in the past.

3. They Keep Mentioning Someone Else

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When talking to a partner who is seeing someone else, you might catch them mentioning another person over and over again. Whenever you mention a new destination, a joke, or something funny, they might bring up a particular name.

This should be a red flag suggesting that there might be someone else in their life. Your partner might not even realize they are doing this.

When you are involved with someone in an intimate or personal way, they stay on your mind. So, they might be mentioning the person because they don't believe that you can suspect them of doing anything behind their back.

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Otherwise, if you had shown any sign that you were suspicious, chances are that they would not be mentioning that person over and over again.

It is also possible that your partner mentions another person over and over again hoping that you will find out their interests lie elsewhere so they don't have to tell you there is someone else directly.

4. They Are Not Excited About Your Time Together

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We are always excited to spend quality time with those we love and care about. So, if your times together seem boring and forced, there is a chance that someone else is involved.

When there is someone else in your partner's life, he/she will often be distracted by thoughts of the other person, which will make your times together very boring.

Also, when there is someone else in your partner's life, your dates will also be unexciting for them. This is a sign that they would rather be spending that time in someone else's company.

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Unless there is a psychological burden weighing on them, there should be no reason for your partner to find your company boring whenever you are together.

5. You Notice A Change In Their Appearance

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When you find a new partner, you consciously or subconsciously try to look your best for them. So, if your partner seems obsessed with their looks lately, there is a chance that there is someone else in their life.

For instance, your partner might start working out and spend a lot of money on new clothes or hairstyles.

So, if you realize that they have spent a lot of money or time to change their appearance, or that a new hobby taking up a lot of their time, chances are that there is someone else they are trying to impress.

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However, there is also a chance that they have chosen to work on themselves and improve their lives.

Maybe your partner is trying to lose some weight and get healthier. This might come with a desire to wear more flattering outfits or a desire to engage in fun activities they could not enjoy before.

6. When Your Partner No Longer Talks Of The Future, There Is Someone Else In Your Partner's Life

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When you are in a relationship with a long-term partner, talking about your future never stops. Every day, you will be working toward a common future, and that means you cannot avoid talking about the future.

So, when such talks abruptly come to an end, then you should be worried that there is someone else in your partner's life. Things may get so bad that you cannot even talk about how you will spend the weekend together.

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Obviously, most people want to be with people they can plan a future with. This means it's likely that there is someone else in their life if they no longer want to talk about the future of your relationship.

7. Your Partner Avoids Your Family And Friends

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People who are unfaithful to their partners can feel an incredible amount of guilt. Therefore, they might avoid your family and friends since it would bring them a huge deal of discomfort.

Your partner will do this to avoid any reminders of you and your openness. Such reminders would make them feel terrible about their treatment of you.

Consequently, if your partner does not seem very keen on interacting with your family members or friends, chances are that there is someone else they are seeing behind your back.

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8. Your Sex Life Is Suffering

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Healthy couples still experience ups and downs in their sex lives. However, if things get so bad that you start to get concerned, then you should be concerned that there is someone else in your partner's life.

Your love-making sessions might lack passion, and your partner might seem distracted or bored if this is actually happening. If they cannot give you a genuine reason for their lack of enthusiasm, there there is a possibility that their thoughts are occupied by another person.

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9. They Are Emotionally Withdrawn

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If your partner is emotionally withdrawn, there is a possibility that there is someone else in their life. Being emotionally attached to another partner makes people less available to their current partners.

Signs of emotional detachment include your partner's failure to respond when you try to ask them more about their day. When you ask "How was your day?" you might get "fine" as the only response.

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This is one of the most obvious signs that there is someone else in your partner's life.

Emotional withdrawal is usually caused by the guilt the person is feeling for being drawn to another person when they are still with you. Allowing you to be there for them and showing them support can make them feel worse. So, emotional detachment might seem like a more suitable solution.

11. Your Partner Seems A Lot Closer To A Particular "Friend"

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In a lot of cases, people cheat with people their partners already know. So, if you notice that your partner is especially close to a certain friend, you should be careful.

They might be talking or texting them more often. Your partner might even ask you to spend time with this person as a way to keep you from getting suspicious.

If you feel that your partner prefers this friend over you, there is a good chance they are seeing each other.

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12. The Partner Is More Selfish And Secretive With Their Money

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Was your partner treating you to romantic dates and other fun activities before, but doesn't do so anymore? Unless there has been a drastic change in their financial situation, then you consider the possibility that there is someone else in their lives.

Every relationship needs money to stay exciting. The cash is necessary for dates, outings, coffees, and other fun things. If this money is being spent on someone else, then it might not be available for you.

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Even if your partner finds time to spend with you, they will not spend as much money on you, which will leave you with a lot of unanswered questions.

Therefore, if you notice that your partner has suddenly gotten a little stingy, and there is no logical explanation for this change, consider that a red flag. If they are spending on someone else, they might not have the motivation or the finances to do the same for you.

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13. Your Partner Is Still Active On Dating Sites

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Today, a lot of people meet on dating sites, whether looking for flings or long-term relationships. If your relationship was casual, then you can reasonably expect that your partner will still be active on dating sites.

However, if you are in a serious and exclusive relationship, your partner should not have any need for a dating service. In fact, you should not allow them to convince you otherwise.

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Even if there's nobody else, being active on dating sites tells you that your partner is hoping to meet other people although they are still with you. At the very least, an active dating site subscription proves that your partner has a backup plan in case your relationship fails.

Once you confront your partner about this, they should at least delete their account. If they don't, then you should be pretty certain that there is someone else in your partner's life. Being active on dating sites is actually among the most reliable signs that your partner is sleeping with someone else.

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