101+ Questions To Ask A Guy Over Text To Get To Know Him Deeper

Here are 100+ questions to ask a guy over text to help you get to know him better, covering a range of topics from hobbies and interests to personal preferences. These questions can help start a conversation when you're feeling unsure or nervous.

Keep in mind, these questions are just suggestions. You can use them as is or adapt them to fit your style.

Here Are The Questions You Can Ask

Can you share three things you are thankful for?
Is there a particular fictional character that you identify with?
Do you have a question for me that you haven't asked yet? Go ahead and ask.
Do you dislike a specific genre of music and if so, why?
What was it about me that first caught your eye?
If we could spend the weekend together, what would you like to do?
What is something that always brings a smile to your face?
Are you scared of anything? If so, what is it?
Can you share a scary experience you've had?

If you could converse with anyone from the past, who would it be and what questions would you ask?
Additionally, if you could spend a night with anyone from history, who would it be?
What's your preferred cuisine?
Do you have good cooking skills?
Do you own any pets? If yes, what kind?
What are your favorite creatures (excluding pets)?
What's the oddest experience you've had with an animal?
Do you think in ghosts? Why or why not?
What was your most remarkable dream?

What's the most memorable dream you recall sharing with someone?
Can you describe the best date you've had? What made it so special?
And, on the other hand, the worst date?
Share the most embarrassing moment you've experienced.
Do you enjoy reading? If yes, mention some of your favorite books.
If you were to write a book, what topic would you choose?
Do you enjoy reading erotica? If yes, specify the type.
What's the most unusual place you've had sexual activity?
How do you prefer to be touched during intimate moments?
Do you like gentle or rough intimacy, or a combination of both?

What's a unique skill that you're proud of?
Do you have any rare talents?
Are you hiding any cool abilities?
Share about a memorable meal: cuisine, location, who were you with.
Is there a type of food you absolutely dislike?
Describe the best live music performance you've ever seen.
If you could go anywhere right now, where would you like to go and what would you like to do there?
Tell me about a memorable trip you took.
What's a strange food combination you enjoy?
Which movie or book ending would you change and why?

Which TV or film world would you choose to live in if given the option?
What was a favorite TV show or movie from your childhood?
How's your relationship with your family?
What valuable lesson did you learn from a family member, regardless of your relationship with them?
Do you have any heroes or people you admire? If so, who and why?
Conversely, is there anyone you hope not to emulate? Why?
What qualities do you value in a partner?
What's your favorite aspect of yourself?
Are you satisfied with your appearance, or would you change it?

What's one thing you'd like to change about yourself?
What physical feature of mine do you like the most?
Do you prefer a specific physical type or do you like variety?
What's a fantasy of yours that you haven't fulfilled yet?
Is there anything that makes you feel shy or self-conscious?
What was the most challenging job you've ever had and why was it so difficult?
What's your ideal job?
If you could do anything for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Do you have any dietary restrictions or food allergies?
Do you have any ethical food choices? If so, what foods do you avoid and why?

Do you have an opinion on astrology?
What is your zodiac sign? Are you interested in discovering it together?
What's your go-to drink of choice?
Do you use any recreational drugs? If yes, which ones? If no, why not?
What's your take on festivals? Do you enjoy attending large or small ones, or not at all?
What's a talent you have that isn't particularly useful? (Bonus points if it's amusing)
Are you into fitness? What's your favorite workout or physical activity?
Do you prefer watching or playing sports?
How about practicing yoga or Tai Chi?
Are you a fan of movies? If yes, what genres do you like most?
Star Wars or Star Trek, or neither?

Do you have a favorite celebrity? Why do they stand out to you?
Have you changed your opinion of a famous person before? Why did that happen?
What hobbies do you enjoy?
Are you more introverted or extroverted? Do you like time alone or company?
Is there anything upcoming that you're excited about?
What's a social cause you're passionate about?
Have you participated in a protest? If not, would you consider it?
How many languages are you proficient in? Are you interested in learning more?
What skills or knowledge would you like to acquire in the future?
Do you enjoy playing games as a form of entertainment? Which ones are your favorite?

Do you enjoy cosplay or costume play?
Do you enjoy dressing up for Halloween?
Which type of movie would you like to be an extra in, if given the chance?
What brings a smile to your face?
What is something you miss and would like to have back, if possible?
Is there anything that always arouses you?
On the other hand, what turns you off instantly?
Pineapple on pizza: your stance?
What do you love about being a man and what do you dislike about it?
If given a chance to be a woman for a day, would you and what would you do?

Do you have any unique habits or behaviors?
If you could possess one superpower, what would it be?
What animal would you like to be for a day if given the chance?
If you woke up and discovered you were the only person left on earth, how would you react? And what would be the first thing you'd do?
Who do you find to be one of the most intriguing individuals alive today?
If you could meet them, what questions would you ask and what topics would you discuss?
What are the top three items on your bucket list?
If stranded on a deserted island, what five items would you want to have with you for survival?
What would you miss the most if it suddenly vanished from the world?

What's the most memorable gift you've received?
Is there anything you want to release, either a long-held possession or an emotion you want to move away from?

Keep the texting questions light, flirty, and fun. Don't force uncomfortable answers. Let the guy open up to you at his own pace. Maintain a back-and-forth conversation by responding to his questions as well.