Published in May 2018 / Updated in Aug 2021
Intimate romance is a bond that finds those that are fortunate. It doesn’t come along every day. On the rare chance that you find love and abuse it, you will unquestionably spend whatever is left of your life attempting to get it back. Or at the very least you’ll spend that time trying to find it again.
In the event that you need to find out if the man you are with is the one that will be with you everlastingly, there are some indications that you can search for. When you keep on reading you’ll discover some extremely fundamental things that ought to be. They can’t be constrained, they are either there or they aren’t.
In the event that you can answer yes to the questions here, you’ll know you found the right one. Regardless of whether there is a couple of no’s sprinkled in, that is alright. No one is perfect, but as long as the vast majority of them seem to be “yes” answers you are alright and have found the one for you.
However, if you find yourself answering “no” to most of them, it just may be time to move on and continue your search. He is out there for you, but you’ll never find him if you don’t take the steps needed to start the search.
Is he really the one?
You spend all of your time with him and most of your thoughts revolve around him, but is he really the one? Does he make your heart skip a beat? Do you get “butterflies” when you think about him? Then maybe this means he is the one for you! Read on and answer these questions to find out.
Does he take action to make sure you know that you are the only one?
Are you sure you are the only one in his life? Does he make you feel that you are his life? Will he drop everything at the drop of a hat if you are sick, stressed, or stranded on the highway, and come to you like a knight in shining armor? A man who has eyes only for you makes you a priority in his life and values your safety.
Does he mean it when he says those three magical words?
When he tells you that he loves you, do you feel it? Are you certain that he means it? Can you see the genuineness in his eyes as he says those words to you? Does he show his love for you by the little things he does, or does he remember your favorite flower or how you like your eggs in the morning?
Is he always there to help you no matter what?
Does he help you even when you don’t need it? Is he there just to be near you and take part in something you are doing? It doesn’t have to be anything important. Helping with the kitchen work is a good sign. Nothing turns a woman on more than a man who is comfortable enough in his “manhood” to help around the house, or even go buy you tampons and Midol when you start your period early.
Are you the one he confides in to share his emotions?
Does he come to you with his deepest thoughts and fears? Or does he share them with someone else? A man who loves you is able to share tears with you, happiness, fear, and insecurities. Most women crave this, and it is known as letting a woman “IN”. Behind that macho man exterior really is a sensitive man just waiting to come out for the right woman.
Does he make you feel like you are the most important thing in life?
Does he make sure that his free time is spent either with you or on you? Those few spare minutes that come up during the day… are those yours? At lunch, do you get those surprise texts saying “I love you beautiful”, or does he send you flowers out of the blue for no reason at all?
Does he talk about the future with you?
Do you have discussions about the future? Are those discussions about a future together? It takes a very special woman to make a man see a future with her. For me, my husband told me he knew I was the one when he saw me holding his newborn niece at a huge party. He said he could see me having his child. Our eyes met and that was that.
Do you want to grow old with him?
Do you picture yourself like this down the road? Is this a future picture of the two of you? Can you see yourselves spending every holiday together, spending the summertime sitting together on the porch swing, sipping sweet tea, and talking about memories past and what your grand-babies are going to do with you over the weekend?
Does he make you feel like a princess in a fairy tale?
The main question is; does he make you feel like nobody else can? We all know that fairy tales aren’t real, but he can certainly make it feel close to it. Does he do that? Is he your best friend, confidant, and lover all rolled into one?
If all of the above is true, it might be time to turn ‘I’ and ‘you’ into ‘us.’
If you answered yes to all of the above, then you just might have found the man that will love you forever. If you said no to most of the questions it might be time to go out and find that man that is waiting for you. Once you find this kind of love, don’t ever let him go.