Boyfriends, and even husbands, are not mind readers, and more often than not, they want some things out of the relationships, but they fail to communicate. Some things are simple, and they go for all relationships: no one wants to deal with selfish, stubborn, and clingy partners.
Also, keep in mind that though your partner fell in love with the person you were, it is essential to grow, improve yourself, and put effort into a relationship. This is a two-way street, and if you are both dedicated, you have higher chances of staying coupled up.
As much as your relationship evolves, there are small things men would want to change when it comes to women. Though these small things cannot compare to someone's lack of compassion, they can be highly annoying but are easily fixable.
Your guy could be too shy or embarrassed to say it to your face, and if you don't know, you cannot fix it. In the long run, these little things turn into major issues. Additionally, you man might be afraid not to be misunderstood, and of course, you are not a mind reader.
That's why you should pay attention to the following since these are things most guys want you to do more or less of:
1. Less Selfies
In the world of social media, your phone feels permanently attached to your hand. What is even more interesting is that gals love to take hundreds of selfies only to choose one for their Instagram.
Show your man some love, and put your phone down. Instead of looking for a perfect selfie, dedicate that time to him, talk to your man, and see him.
2. Be More Spontaneous
Your man wants to take you on a surprise picnic or somewhere special, but he is not sure how you would feel about it. Let him know that you are open to adventures and new experiences.
3. Less Makeup
Now, we are not saying you should drop your makeup or change your look to suit a guy. But, when you are alone, in a romantic setting, you should relax and be yourself. And that means less contouring, highlighting, overall more of you.
Your guy loves you the way you are, and you are always beautiful to him. Let your skin breathe, and let your man enjoy your natural beauty.
4. Make Him Laugh
Couples who laugh together stay together!
You don't have to know all the best jokes, but men like women with a sense of humor. He will appreciate your efforts and not taking everything so seriously.
5. Wear Something Cozy
It's okay to be all dolled up, but keep it for special occasions. You don't have to be in high heels to impress your man. He loves you and wants to feel relaxed when you are together.
6. Passion Goes Beyond The Bedroom
Men are generally more tracked to women who are passionate about their careers, education, good causes just as they are passionate about their relationships.
Do not be the girl who fits into his schedule. Be a woman who finds time for him in hers.
7. Everyone Likes To Snuggle
Men won't admit it, but snuggling is incredible. It releases tension and creates more intimacy between two people.
8. Be More Open-minded
Your guy is too polite to ask, but spicing things up in a bedroom is a major turn-on. Use your imagination without doing anything you find uncomfortable.
Sex should be enjoyable and fun.
9. Less Drama
While some guys are over the top dramatic, most are not into gossiping and creating fake scenarios to fill in their time. Leave office gossip to your best friends, and avoid putting down other women. It makes you look insecure.
10. Your Man Wants Fancy Gifts Too
Splurge on your partner - just as you expect him to listen, and get you the perfect birthday present, you should do the same.
It doesn't have to be anything expensive, but it should be something extra. Something that says, "I am listening, I am here, and I care." No pressure.